As long as you’ve quit (and you’re not going to start again), we’re good to go out. :)

“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing” - some guy, probably.

Honestly, voting is pretty important to me but I know there are a few exceptions (such as not being able to) that prevent people from doing so.

I would really like for this (marriage) to be a shared new experience for both me and my future spouse. I like the idea of someone who hasn’t already gotten down on one knee for someone else.

I would love to have kids (in the very near future!) but the idea of being a step-parent isn’t really something that appeals to me and I think it would be unfair of me to date someone who has kids for this reason.

I’m not looking for someone who currently actively engages in using un-prescribed mind altering substances (higher than cannabis) or drinks heavily daily. If you’re someone who is in recovery, (congratulations and I’m proud of you,) I’m open to dating as long as you’ve got at least 1+ year down.

You don’t have to tell me everything from the start and we can take our time getting to know one another, but honesty is very important to me. I appreciate when people can tell the truth (even if it’s hard or means we aren’t a match).